Hey there, lovelies! Welcome back to my blog with a new Law of Attraction post. Today, I want to share with you three keys to manifest the life of your dreams.
The Law of Attraction can be hard to understand in the beginning. It’s also hard to trust when you are starting out. I mean, is it true that we can co-create the life of our dreams?
Yes! It is true.
It’s normal to doubt it.We grew up believing certain things that are no true, and changing those beliefs is super hard.
When you were little and you heard in movies that “everything is possible” and “all your dreams can come true”, you believe it.
Then years pass and somehow we get stuck in this society that tells us that we can’t actually have all the things we desire. The heart of our inner child breaks with that new reality. Losing that magic and innocence.
Many people try the Law of Attraction, but they give up pretty easily. Why? Because they don’t see results right away.
When in reality, the problem they might have is how they are trying to manifest their life of their dreams. Or the why they are asking the universe for something.
The reason behind your desire is important.
The Law of Attraction seems very frivolous sometimes: “You have positive thoughts, you get what you desire.” BUT there must be an intention behind that desire. Why do you want to manifest that in the first place?
Sometimes the problem relies in the intention. That’s why our desires don’t become a reality.
Why the Law of Attraction Is Not Working For You
There are many reasons why your dreams aren’t coming true.
Maybe you are changing your mind a lot. That confuses the universe and you end up with nothing. Once you tell the universe what you want, you need to be sure about it.
Or maybe you are giving the universe too many instructions. That’s not how it works. You don’t worry about how or when this is going to happen. You just trust is going to happen and the universe will be in charge of giving you what you desire when it’s the right time for you.
Also, remember that the Law of Attraction is part of the 7 Universal Laws, and that each of them interweave with each other.
For example; if the reason behind wanting something in particular is to do some damage to another person, then be sure the Law of Cause and Effect (aka Karma) will be waiting for you.
So if the intention are not “pure”, it might be a reason why your desires aren’t coming true.
Or it’s simply not for you. But in that case… you will be getting something better.
Some times we just don’t know what’s best for us. So God or the Universe will gives us something better. Don’t worry about that!
The Keys To Manifest The Life Of Your Dreams
1. Heal Yourself
This is the #1 to manifest the life of your dreams. Without this, you won’t be able to have an abundant life. Why? Because you aren’t treating the problem form the root.
I don’t know how you grew up, but most of us have some issues with money. Have you ever thought about your relationship with money? Did you grew up thinking is scarce so we must always save?
I don’t have a bad relationship with money per se, but I always grew up hearing this phrase: save bread for may (“guardar pan para mayo” in Spanish). Which means save money for tough moments in your life.
That created a limiting belief in myself.
If I want to live in abundance, I have to believe it first.
Money will always flow in my life. I will always feel abundant, and that’s the reality I wan to create for myself.
While in this society, saving is important. I don’t want to save because later in life I will need that money. I’m saving as a result of having a lot influx of money. Which is different.
I still fight with myself about this limiting belief. I feel smart saving money because “you never know” when you will need those savings. So I’ll do it just in case.
But that ‘just in case’ is limiting my abundance.
It is so hard to completely heal yourself and erase those limiting beliefs, but it’s definitely possible.
Something that has helped a lot to heal myself is Ho’oponopono, a Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness.
It can be hard to reach your subconscious mind and erase all those limiting beliefs that doesn’t let you have an abundant life.
No matter how much you keep thinking positive thoughts; if those limiting beliefs are still in you, then you will have problems manifesting the life of your dreams.
2. How You Talk Is Important
We know that positive thoughts are important in the Law of Attraction, but we also need to be conscious about the words we use when we talk.
A word is a thought wrapped in emotions that you verbalized.
It makes no sense if you keep visualizing prosperity, but you keep saying things like: “I’m broke”, “I don’t have money”, “I will never have money”, etc.
Whatever you say out loud is important.
I have better control over this than my thoughts. It’s easier to be conscious about the things I say, rather than the thoughts that pop in my heads, which are hard to control.
I don’t say things like: “I can’t afford it” or “It’s too expensive”. I just say things like: “I’ll get it soon!” or just a money affirmation to let go those negative thoughts that come to me when I face a situation like that.
3. Let Go & Trust
This is easy once you know who you are and what the Universe is. You learn how to trust because you know it’s possible; and when you reach that point, you will unlock something amazing in you.
Letting go means that you won’t obsesses over whatever you want to manifest.
If you are visualizing with an attachment, then you won’t be able to manifest the life of your dreams.
While you visualize, you can’t keep thinking: I need this car, or I need this house, etc. You can’t use the word ‘need’ in first place. Need has a negative connotation. You are vibrating in scarcity and fear. So you end up blocking the abundance.
This is what you should do instead: think of what you want, add the intention (direct your energy to whatever you want to manifest), and let it go.
It will come to you.
We don’t know how or when it will happen, but we are trusting the universe that our desire will materialize.
Just focus on the intention and the emotions. You already have it, how that makes you feel? That’s what you need to focus on!